King of Wands

In this KING of Wands week, I am sharing a personal story about my experience over the last two weeks, about what it really means to be the King or Queen, and our role in Shaping our Destiny.

For Any of you touched by the Princess and Frog story I shared at Date with Destiny, there is a back story I’d like to share, as well as a magical new chapter. While I was overwhelmed with love by all of the people who hugged me and connected with me after my share, there was one man who approach me after asking, “So, does the princess end up alone? Does she not feel she needs anyone?” 

Clever man. In fact, I was one of the people who stood when Tony asked to see who was at level 6 in relationships: I was not in a relationship and I DIDN”T WANT to be in one! 

In truth, relationship had been my primary focus, passion, reason for living and highest value from before I could even speak. All of my imaginary games, all of my diary entries, everything I did was to align with romantic union. As you can imagine, I experienced a great deal of pain in this area as well, as not all young people have the same focus early on. I persevered and did attract a very handsome prince, who loved me and built me a beautiful castle with the promise of a beautiful life, but as the story goes, he transformed into a Frog very quickly after our marriage and I struggled with my old primary question: What did I do wrong to make this happen? That question had created a pattern with some momentum at that point. 

So was I cursed? Was I a princess or a frog myself? 

Through a deep spiritual quest to know the nature of love and myself better (still driven by my desire for romantic union and my old primary question) I fell deeply in love, this time with myself and with a NEW Prince. Over 7 years my heart was tested and stretched to see how many conditions it could face and still love, through VERY FROGGY times, even to the point of creating separation and completely letting go of him, just months before Date with Destiny. We attended the event via the same airplanes, but we were clearly NOT together at the event. 

I was not in a relationship and I DID NOT WANT TO BE!

I had my first DWD breakthrough by changing my STORY. Minutes before Tony Chose me to share, I was crying beautifully at my new story! That I was pure love and that there were no Princesses, Princes or frogs anyway! We are all complete and whole and LOVE! I thought, well that is it! My “struggle” for romantic relationship is OVER! I am liberated! I NEED NO ONE!! I am ENOUGH! ALL BY MYSELF!

Then relationship day came. 

Wrecked me completely. Tore me wide open and I saw the truth that my soul divinely desires a Masculine KING to protect and support me, and I long to Serve and Cherish him in a divinely feminine QUEENLY way. This was inconvenient for me to accept. When writing my love letter, I wasn’t sure who I was writing it to. I wrote it quickly and half heartedly. 

That night I was nervous to meet up with my “Friend” (I had been calling him) to share what I had learned about how masculine I had been in our realtionship, and that I want love but I wasn’t sure if it was with him. He shared that he didn’t even do the relationship visualization and had also asserted that he was at a level 6. It was a sad night for me and I arrived to transformation day, puffy, deflated, saturated, and exhausted. It was EXACTLY where I needed to be to completely shift everything. 

So much divine guidance, so much support, new VALUES! New primary Question! How can I be even more Gratefully conscious that EVERYTHING is Happening FOR ME?!?!? 

I was a QUEEN and I knew what my destiny was!! Creating my poster was PURE MAGIC! 

And the next day I met a KING! 

This KING was everything! Masculine and Present and Powerful and Gentle and Deep and READY and after spending some time getting know each other (a couple of hours!!) WE WERE ALL IN!!! He booked a flight and I told my parents! LIFE WAS MAGICAL! 

WHOA, it was all happening VERY FAST! And through the whole movement, I witnessed my former frog prince, my friend, my baby’s father, go from feelings of deep loss, regret, despair, to changing his painful story, seeing that life was happening for him as well, and feeling true joy FOR ME! He stayed up all night and created his relationship vision, drafted a new poster and included his love for another in his Destiny! 

AND SOMETHING SHIFTED INSIDE OF ME. Four nights post DWD and deep in the fevers of Breakthrough Flu, my soul came to me and revealed another page: It was My OLD frog prince, transformed to KING and holding my family in his arms, so safe, so loved, so present, so MASCULINE. My waking thought was not of my new King, but a prayer for words from the old. AND the words were THERE. So beautifully surrendered, still loving me, but supportive of my new adventure in love. 

Beyonce’s “Halo” rang over and over in my heart for him. Was he Ready to be my King?  What about the new king I had met? 

I trusted that this life was happening for ME and that it was also happening for everyone else. I trusted my Heart, I trusted my Soul and my Guidance. I Surrendered. 

Communication flowed smoothy and beautifully. Hearts spoke clearly and openly. Light poured in and out of every crevasse! YES! YESSSSS!!! He was READY! HE knew what it meant now to LOVE a QUEEN and to put relationship FIRST. He knew what it meant now to be the KING of his family and he would do WHATEVER it TAKES, no matter what, ALL THE WAY THE FUCK IN. 

I am complete Ecstasy!! 

The King I had met at DWD, as a true King would, gracefully loved and honored our process. He rejoiced in the intelligent Grace of the Universe. I cried with gratitude and awareness that he was send by god to my soul to guide and teach me in the time it mattered most. Pure Love Beauty Grace. 

Now, for Christmas, my KING and I are doing the work to meet the Destiny of our NEW Relationship! We are doing everything we just did for ourselves, finding our Purpose, our Primary Question, our Toward and Away values, Goals, Incantations, and on a Beautiful Vision board we are celebrating our new kingdom! 

Thank you for all the support, love and connection we shared through this Date with Destiny! You are all a part of my story! I am eternally in AWE!! 

Christina Luna

(OH, and I will keep you posted on my new book!)